Dear Ti: Dark skin girls with low self esteem

I received 2 letters, from 2 different subs about being dark skin and having low self esteem, and how to get over it.
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Laser Hair Removal on Darker Skin

“Dark Skincare – Ingrown hairs, scars & discoloration – New York City plastic surgeon Dr. Robert Guida uses Laser Skin Resurfacing and Laser Hair Removal to safely and effectively treat dark spots, acne and razor bumps in dark skin. For more information, please visit: www.drguida.com”
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Whats a good color for braces for me?
When I had braces, I always thought that the color blue/dark blue looked really good. It made your teeth look very white and it looks nice. During holidays I would ask if I could have alternating colors such as green and red, orange and black, etc. I would personally keep away from bright colors because they can get stained and make your teeth look dirty.
Darker colors always look nice and look clean.
Some light colors like pink, and sky blue look nice too.
My favorite color was personally purple because it was dark and girly[:

Good Luck!

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hair color for black skin

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32 Comments on Dear Ti: Dark skin girls with low self esteem

  1. AmericanZebra says:

    Black and White Americans continue to define themselves and each other according to the “slave mentality” that existed from the time that the first African was brought here. Whites on top, Blacks on the bottom and when it became clear that there would be “mixing”, both sides had to do something to protect their own images. So we became redbones, high yellas, mulattos and mustees, hated and envied by both. Time to clean this shit up! Racism through apathy is still racism!

  2. nusphere says:

    Ironically the advert next to your video is for a skin lightening product! If I were you I would have a few choice words with YouTube for using your channel to advertise the most unappropriated products. Your beautiful by the way ;)

  3. KianaElyse says:

    i have to cousins that are sister one is very light while the other is very darksin same mother and father ages 10 & 8 . they are both very beautiful and very confident . i think that it has to do with our family confidence. we dont really care for skin color & i agree with you ti alot of like to blame music video’s for not feeling pretty. i really dont care we shouldnt be paying attention to music videos !

  4. forbrowngirls says:

    hey guys! love this video & advice. Thanks Ti!. please visit my blog forbrowngirls on tumblr & upcoming site .com dealing with this same insecurity about skin color! Also have a youtube. I hope to inspire, encourage & overcome! much love xx

  5. forbrowngirls says:

    great video!

  6. haksiel says:

    @vivathedivaTV Where are you living? I wish my light skin wouldn’t have me at a disadvantage. It takes telling people I’m Greek to have them leave me alone. Yikes!

  7. Dancingqueen2700 says:

    A lot of dark skinned girls think I think I’m the shit and stuff because I’m light skinned and have long hair. But it’s the total opposite.

  8. CYUNME says:

    Just because slavery ended ” SO LONG AGO” racism did not.

  9. natural6591 says:

    People should study genetics, Black history and the brainwashing of Blacks . The Black media does not include dark skinned women as romantic leads / glamorous which is what younger Black girls are looking to see.Darker skin=overweight,funny domestic to often.

  10. natural6591 says:

    We are repeating the same behavior of whites who bullied/harassed Blacks. See the book “Brainwashed”
    They should understand the men (usually dark) have self-hate issues. Light skinned women do not want to be a “trophy of some self hating Black man.

  11. MalcolmHeardSB says:

    Are you serious black bitches got too much self esteem

  12. WizzoPro9476 says:

    STFU, Dark-Skinnned sisters: Yall hot and yall the WHITE MAN: Both BW (light or dark) and WM Yall both hate BM!!

  13. 121shan says:

    love this

  14. loveshinae says:

    I used to feel the same way when I was little. My mom is very light skinned and my dad is dark skinned, so my color is one of those shades in between. My sister and brother get their color from my mom. I used to hate when people find out I was related to them. I would always get “Why are you so dark?” Why aren’t you light skinned like them” Why don’t you look nothing like them” Why? Why? Why?

    It doesn’t bother me anymore. God made no mistakes when making me. So you either take it or leave it

  15. M0N3t7 says:

    @lovelyti2002
    I used to feel the same way when I was little…I thought I was pretty/gorgeous because of my family and also my own thoughts. I did not start feeling bad until I started noticing “boys” it went down hill from there.

  16. Tastypeache says:

    I LOVE YOU! N UR SOO RIGHT! it is sad but at the same time i dont blame ppl for tryna bleach their skin becuzz they’re tryna live up to the society’s standards….i wuddnt say its self hate becuzz if it was, im sure there wudd be a high suicide rate

  17. Ms123Jen says:

    I think it sad that the slave masters are in their grave yet over 100 years later their legacy still lives i can’t believe black people are doing this to themselves it’s really sad.

  18. AmericanZebra says:

    Black and White Americans continue to define themselves and each other according to the “slave mentality” that existed from the time that the first African was brought here. Whites on top, Blacks on the bottom and when it became clear that there would be “mixing”, both sides had to do something to protect their own images. So we became redbones, high yellas, mulattos and mustees, hated and envied by both. Time to clean this shit up! Racism through apathy is still racism!

  19. nusphere says:

    Ironically the advert next to your video is for a skin lightening product! If I were you I would have a few choice words with YouTube for using your channel to advertise the most unappropriated products. Your beautiful by the way ;)

  20. KianaElyse says:

    i have to cousins that are sister one is very light while the other is very darksin same mother and father ages 10 & 8 . they are both very beautiful and very confident . i think that it has to do with our family confidence. we dont really care for skin color & i agree with you ti alot of like to blame music video’s for not feeling pretty. i really dont care we shouldnt be paying attention to music videos !

  21. forbrowngirls says:

    hey guys! love this video & advice. Thanks Ti!. please visit my blog forbrowngirls on tumblr & upcoming site .com dealing with this same insecurity about skin color! Also have a youtube. I hope to inspire, encourage & overcome! much love xx

  22. forbrowngirls says:

    great video!

  23. haksiel says:

    @vivathedivaTV Where are you living? I wish my light skin wouldn’t have me at a disadvantage. It takes telling people I’m Greek to have them leave me alone. Yikes!

  24. Dancingqueen2700 says:

    A lot of dark skinned girls think I think I’m the shit and stuff because I’m light skinned and have long hair. But it’s the total opposite.

  25. CYUNME says:

    Just because slavery ended ” SO LONG AGO” racism did not.

  26. natural6591 says:

    People should study genetics, Black history and the brainwashing of Blacks . The Black media does not include dark skinned women as romantic leads / glamorous which is what younger Black girls are looking to see.Darker skin=overweight,funny domestic to often.

  27. natural6591 says:

    We are repeating the same behavior of whites who bullied/harassed Blacks. See the book “Brainwashed”
    They should understand the men (usually dark) have self-hate issues. Light skinned women do not want to be a “trophy of some self hating Black man.

  28. MalcolmHeardSB says:

    Are you serious black bitches got too much self esteem

  29. WizzoPro9476 says:

    STFU, Dark-Skinnned sisters: Yall hot and yall the WHITE MAN: Both BW (light or dark) and WM Yall both hate BM!!

  30. 121shan says:

    love this

  31. loveshinae says:

    I used to feel the same way when I was little. My mom is very light skinned and my dad is dark skinned, so my color is one of those shades in between. My sister and brother get their color from my mom. I used to hate when people find out I was related to them. I would always get “Why are you so dark?” Why aren’t you light skinned like them” Why don’t you look nothing like them” Why? Why? Why?

    It doesn’t bother me anymore. God made no mistakes when making me. So you either take it or leave it

  32. M0N3t7 says:

    @lovelyti2002
    I used to feel the same way when I was little…I thought I was pretty/gorgeous because of my family and also my own thoughts. I did not start feeling bad until I started noticing “boys” it went down hill from there.

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